Building a larger us:
five questions for change-makers
by Alex Evans

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The authors, thinkers, and experts behind our resources represent a wide range of backgrounds. Our ambition – as with all our activities –  is to include diverse voices and perspectives in terms of gender, race, age, location and specialism. We’re aware that this is ongoing work and we’d love to hear your feedback and suggestions.

Why do we need to become a larger us?

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A Larger Us, Alex Evans,  Collective Psychology Project (Larger Us’ predecessor organisation)

Pages 5 to 8 ‘Politics meet psychology’.

Reading time 5 minutes

This report covers topics including:

  • Vicious cycle of polarisation
  • Roots of our current situation
  • Threat perception
  • Importance of inner work

This article shares the results of a study on the concept of ‘oneness’ and how a person’s belief in oneness predicts how compassionate they are to people not in their ‘in-group’ – the study found that only 1 in 5 participants had ever thought about the oneness of all things which means we have work to do if we want to create a larger us!

Feelings, not facts, are dividing Britain, King’s College London

Reading time 3 minutes

This report focuses on affective polarisation – when polarisation is less about disagreeing on the issues than intense dislike and distrust towards ‘the other side’.

Feelings, not facts, are dividing Britain, King’s College London

Reading time 3 minutes

This report focuses on affective polarisation – when polarisation is less about disagreeing on the issues than intense dislike and distrust towards ‘the other side’.

Reconnecting with compassion, Krista Tippett, TED talk

Watching time 15 minutes

This talk seeks to define compassion and builds on the concept of ‘widening our circles of compassion’.

Why don’t we care about facts?, The Inquiry podcast presented by Ruth Alexander, BBC

Listening time 23 mins

This podcast is useful for change-makers who want to reflect on how their own world view and beliefs – and those of others – impacts how they respond to facts. It includes reflections on group think, biases and self-preservation.

Counter Culture: How to resist the culture wars and build 21st century solidarity, Kirsty McNeill and Roger Harding, Fabian Society

Reading time 30 minutes

This report argues that progressive change-makers should not become distracted by the current culture wars and instead should focus on building solidarity. Co-author, Kirsty McNeill, is the Chair of Larger Us

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How can we create belonging?

The authors, thinkers, and experts behind our resources represent a wide range of backgrounds. Our ambition – as with all our activities –  is to include diverse voices and perspectives in terms of gender, race, age, location and specialism. We’re aware that this is ongoing work and we’d love to hear your feedback and suggestions. 

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Missing your people: why belonging is so important and how to create it, Tracey Brower, Forbes

Reading time 10 minutes

This article considers why belonging is important to humans and offers ideas on how we can create a sense of belonging for ourselves and other people. It also references a number of studies you may want to follow-up on.

Why loneliness fuels populism, Noreena Hertz, Financial Times

Reading time 15 minutes

This article outlines how right wing political groups are creating a sense of belonging for people experiencing loneliness (particularly men) with examples from the US, Italy and France.

The power of vulnerability, Dr Brene Brown, TED talk

Viewing time 20 minutes

This talk explores the link between shame, connection and belonging through the lens of vulnerability. It builds on the concepts of ‘shame wounds’, self-acceptance and projection.

Loneliness is the common ground of terrorism and extremism, Nabeelah Jaffer Aeon

Reading time 18 minutes

The story of what happened when a Muslim woman discovered her friend was a white supremacist.

Obama’s Lost Army, Micah Sifry, The New Republic

Reading time 22 minutes

How Obama’s 2008 campaign built a network of 2 million people – many of them in small groups – and then let it die after the election, potentially paving the way for Trump.

5 reasons to build a network of small groups rather than a mass movement of individuals, Richard D. Bartlett, Enspiral Tales

Reading time 10 minutes

This article outlines how small groups can be a catalyst for collective healing, as well as inner and outer change.

Community: the structure of belonging, Peter Block. Specifically: Chapter 9: the small group is the unit of transformation

Reading time 12 minutes

This excerpt argues that ‘large-scale transformation occurs when enough small groups are aggregated to lead to a larger change’ and that within small groups people need to experience an intimate and authentic relatedness.

Excellent selection of talks, meditations and other resources from a leading psychologist, author, and proponent of Buddhist meditation.

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How can we bridge divides?

The authors, thinkers, and experts behind our resources represent a wide range of backgrounds. Our ambition – as with all our activities – is to include diverse voices and perspectives in terms of gender, race, age, location and specialism. We’re aware that this is ongoing work and we’d love to hear your feedback and suggestions.

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Worlds Apart – Heineken advert

Watching time 4.30 minutes

This advert quickly gets to the heart of what bridge building is all about.

Difficult Conversations,Fred Kofman

Watching time 9 minutes

This video focuses on the practical skills needed to have a courageous conversation. Fred Kofman specialises in leadership and culture but we believe the techniques and skills he advises are transferable to many different contexts.

A Turkish Opposition Leader Is Fighting Erdoğan With ‘Radical Love’, Melvyn Ingleby, The Atlantic

Reading time 7 minutes

This article is an account of the Radical Love campaign in Turkey. It outlines how the campaign sought to neutralise the populist tactics in play during and after the Istanbul mayoral election in 2019.

Debate between Alex Evans of Larger Us and journalist/activist George Monbiot.

The climate movement we need right now, Alex Evans (blog)

George Monbiot’s response to the ideas posed by Alex and others in a Twitter thread (series of consecutive Tweets)

Alex’s reply to him

Total reading time 12 minutes

This debate is ‘larger us’ thinking in action! The focus here is on climate change but the principles being debated – who to include/exclude in a movement for change – can apply to many different contexts.

Why do we treat our in-group better than our out group?, The Decision Lab

Reading time 15 minutes

This article explains what in-group bias is, why it happens, its effects and what can be done to avoid it.

This is a great example of a campaigning organisation reaching out to build relationships with the ‘unusual’ suspects. By listening to the experiences and concerns of oil workers, Greenpeace and its allies have been able to find areas of common ground.

Why I, as a black man, attend KKK rallies, Daryl Davis
TED talk

Watching time 19 minutes

Daryl Davis is someone who reaches across divides. His TED talk is a moving insight into his story and motivations.

Content warning: this talk features the use of a very strong racial slur as part of a TV report segment included in the talk.

How to change people’s minds – with Dave Fleischer, Larger Us podcast

Listening time 1 hour 10 minutes

In this podcast, LGBTQ rights activist Dave Fleischer explains how ‘deep canvassing’ can be an effective campaigning tool.

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How can we appeal to love not fear?

The authors, thinkers, and experts behind our resources represent a wide range of backgrounds. Our ambition – as with all our activities – is to include diverse voices and perspectives in terms of gender, race, age, location and specialism. We’re aware that this is ongoing work and we’d love to hear your feedback and suggestions.

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Amygdala hijack: when emotions take over, Healthline

Reading time 10 minutes

This article explains the idea of ‘amygdala hijack’ – what it is, the symptoms, and how to prevent it.

Authoritarianism: the terrifying trait that Trump triggers – Tom Jacobs, Pacific Standard
Reading time 8 minutes

Reading time 8 minutes

This article is an interview with political scientist Karen Stenner about her research into how some people have a psychological predisposition towards authoritarianism.

How to transform stress into courage and connection, Kelly McGonigal, Greater Good Magazine

Reading time 8 minutes

This article explains the ‘tend and befriend’ response to stress. In it, McGonigal argues that stress can be a catalyst for courage and connection

Don’t call people out – call them in, Professor Loretta J. Ross, TED talk

Watching time 15 minutes

This video features Professor Loretta J. Ross who who argues that calling in, or calling on, are more effective at tackling hate than calling out, and offers practical advice on how to do both.

Why some people are primed to be authoritarians, Karen Stenner in conversation with Alex Evans on The Larger Us podcast

Listening time 1 hour

In this podcast, Karen Stenner talks about her research into how some people have a psychological predisposition to authoritarianism, how this can lead to polarisation, and crucially, what we can do about it.

In this blog Darlington shares his experience of deep canvassing on the issue of UK aid and the impact charity/NGO adverts have on people’s perception of the developing world. He also explores the idea of ‘compassion fatigue’.

This article highlights research that’s been conducted into the power of self-touch – like a hand on the heart or stomach – as an effective way for us to manage our stress levels.

4-7-8 calm breathing exercise, Hands-on Meditation

Listening time 4 minutes

This is a guided simple breathing exercise you could use to self-soothe in stressful situations. It can also be used to support restful sleep. You can read more about the science behind this technique here.

10-minute meditation to reframe stress, Headspace

Listening time 10 minutes

This is a short meditation that invites you to check in with your body, focus on your breathing and quiet the mind which you can use before, during or after a stressful situation to find equilibrium.

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How can we help people navigate loss and trauma?

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About Trauma,MIND

Reading time 5 minutes

This is an introduction on trauma from the mental health charity, MIND.

Group identity and its making: crowd psychology and undigested grief, Molly S. Costelloe, Psychology Today

Reading time 5 minutes

This article explains how people experiencing loss of status or privilege may be vulnerable to manipulation by a destructive leader.

Trauma not Transformed is Trauma Transferred: What Baton are you passing on?, Tabitha Mparima-Kaguri, TED talk

Watching time 9 minutes

In this talk, Mparima-Kaguri speaks powerfully about inherited trauma and the work that needs to be done in order to prevent it from being passed down to future generations.

Growth after trauma, Laura Collier, American Psychology Association

Reading time 5 minutes

This article focuses on Post Traumatic Growth, what the signs are, how it is distinct from resilience and how it can help bring new meaning to people’s lives.

This Too Shall Pass, Alex Evans, Casper ter Kuile and Ivor Williams

Reading time 20 minutes

Report by the Collective Psychology Project (Larger Us’s predecessor organisation) on collective grief during Covid-19 and how we can attend to it.

This toolkit is a guide for racial justice activists to support them to maintain their wellbeing before, during and after an action, with particular emphasis on trauma and healing.

Climate Grief: The emotional toll of climate change, Beth Ellwood in Psycom

Reading time 12 minutes

Excellent article exploring what climate grief is, how to cope with it, and with links to lots more resources.

The White-Savior Industrial Complex, Teju Cole, The Atlantic

Reading time 5 minutes

In this article, Cole argues ‘if we are going to interfere in the lives of others, a little due diligence is a minimum requirement’. It speaks to the danger of white-saviour narratives following traumatic events.

Starting to shift from the Drama Triangle to the Winners Triangle, Jane Taylor, Habits for Welbeing

Reading time 5 minutes

This article outlines the ‘Drama Triangle’ which often underpins the concept of ‘savior’ narratives. It explains how it’s possible to shift this dynamic into the ‘Winner’s Triangle’ where a ‘rescuer’ moves from being a fixer or a martyr to a ‘carer’ who is listening and self aware.

Ritual Design toolkit, Interaction Foundry, Imperial College London.

This could be a useful toolkit for anyone who wants to design a ritual as a way to help address collective trauma.

Grenfell Tower and the politics of trauma, Marianna Wróbel, Anthropolitan.

Reading time 8 minutes

This article argues that true recovery in the wake of traumas like Grenfell Tower requires social injustices to be acknowledged and addressed.

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How can we tell stories that bring people together?

The authors, thinkers, and experts behind our resources represent a wide range of backgrounds. Our ambition – as with all our activities – is to include diverse voices and perspectives in terms of gender, race, age, location and specialism. We’re aware that this is ongoing work and we’d love to hear your feedback and suggestions.

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How Your Brain Responds to Stories, Karen Eber, TED talk

Watching time 14 minutes

In this talk Eber argues that presenting people with data is often not enough if we want them to act. As an alternative she outlines how illustrating data with story can be a powerful tool for change.

First watch Fire it up, Ready to go? Barack Obama’s 2009 speech at the University of Maryland

Watching time 7 minutes

This speech encapsulates a theory of storytelling known as ‘the story of self, the story of us, the story of now’ developed by Marshall Ganz.

The article deconstructs the speech, explaining how it follows Ganz’s model and also the ‘hero’s journey’ story arc first identified by the writer Joseph Campbell.

Apocalypse, restoration and emergence: three myths to help us navigate a crisis, Alex Evans, Open Democracy

Reading time 8 minutes

This article explores the story arcs of apocalypse, restoration and emergence. It demonstrates how these narratives can help us to frame crises like Covid.

Telling your public story. Self, Us, Now, Marshall Ganz, Kennedy School of Government

Reading time 15 minutes

This is a worksheet to guide you through developing your own story of self, us and now.

The Danger of a Single Story, Chimamanda Ngozi Adichie, TED talk

Watching time 19 minutes

In this talk, Ngozi Adichie argues that single story narratives rob people of their dignity, undermine our shared humanity and emphasise our differences rather than our similarities.

The Age of Endarkenment, Michael Ventura

Reading time 15 minutes

This article reflects on the idea of humanity being in its teenage years and at an ‘initiatory moment’ in time.

Transforming Narrative Waters, Ruth Taylor

Reading time 25 minutes

Excellent report exploring the practice of “deep narrative change” in the UK, including a comprehensive map of who’s doing what in the field.

Narrative Strategy: The Basics, Liz Manne and others

Reading time 30 minutes

A brilliant how-to guide for a more US-based audience, including a great section exploring how we know that narrative change works.

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